Don’t hate your scale. I mean it. Don’t hate your scale. It’s an inanimate object. Your hostility will have no effect on it anyway. You stand on it and it

The Scale is NOT Your Enemy!
calculates a number. That’s all it can do. That number is not you. It’s your current body mass. And it doesn’t tell you how much of that mass is good and healthy and how much is not desirable. I don’t hate scales. I just don’t trust them because they don’t give a complete picture. They don’t give you an accurate description of your body.
Thanks to a $40 billion dollar a year weight loss industry, I have to talk about weight loss for most people to relate to what true fitness (or more importantly, wellness) means. It’s really a tragedy because it trains people to be fearful of an irrelevant number and worse, teaches people to be afraid of eating and enjoying food. I love food. We are all programmed to love food. Everyone has their favorites and to profit from telling people that they are “wrong” or “bad” for being normal is down right cruel.
Fasting or “crash dieting” is the most common way people try to lose their extra weight and meet the diet industry’s crazy expectations. Exercising more takes a quick second and then pills and of course medical procedures. No what method or combinations of methods a person uses, the end result is a constant cycle of chasing their own tails. Diets and pills and even surgery (sorry doctors) are self defeating. They train you to keep chasing an unrealistic, unattainable and unmanageable goal. That is to lose weight and to constantly do battle with your scale. Which we said before couldn’t care less who steps on it or what they weigh.
Confused now? Most likely you are. Here’s what I want you to know. People are not at their healthiest with the least amount of body fat possible. People are healthiest when their bodies are in balance. That means strength, flexibility, stability and body composition are all in their optimal ranges.
Did you hear the word weight in there? No. That’s because it doesn’t matter what your body weight is if you feel great, your clothes fit well and you have lots of energy. How can you be your best? Focus on your metabolism and not on your body weight.
I am 48 years old. My stomach is not as flat as it could be. But it’s not because I am 48 years old. It’s because my metabolism has slowed (5% per decade) and I haven’t fully adjusted to it. I am a big muscular guy. But that doesn’t mean that I can eat as much at 48 as I did at 28 and not gain weight. In fact I have to eat about 500 calories a day less than I did back in my twenties. It’s an adjustment I don’t always stick too.
For a typical woman my age the difference is not as dramatic. Maybe your metabolism has dropped by 200 calories over the last 2 decades. Did I hear a sigh of relief? Don’t relax too soon. To put that into perspective, 200 extra calories per day represents 10-20 pounds of fat gain in a year.
The Fix:
Focus on preserving or increasing your metabolism!
Weight is weight. But there is good weight and undesirable weight. Good weight burns calories at a high rate. Bad weight is sluggish and holds you down. This is the difference between lean mass and fat mass. Muscle tissue burns calories 3-4 times faster than fat mass. And even better, it takes very little space. Strong muscles burn calories fast!
The weight I want you to be aware of is your lean mass. This is your power house, your furnace. Get a professional to measure your lean mass and concentrate on maintaining and even increasing that part of your body weight. You’ll be amazed at how you will be sleeker and stronger and yet your body weight may not change! Relax and enjoy the feeling of being strong and vital and looking like a million bucks!
Never, never, never go on a crash diet! By starving yourself your weight will drop but your metabolism will too. Muscles become slack, your energy level drops and you find yourself on a continuous uphill battle against poochy stomachs and baggy thighs. Preserving your metabolism means cutting no more than 500 – 1000 calories out of your total energy needs. This means you must also take into account the amount of exercise you get before deciding how many calories you need. This is crucial to building a healthy metabolism.
This also means you should be patient. Reprogramming your body and creating healthier habits takes some time, but lasts a life time. Your weight loss (I hate that term) will be more gradual but the results will be worth it and so much easier to maintain.
Learn how to maximize your metabolism and feel your absolute best. Stick that scale away in a corner somewhere. It’s not helping. Become stronger, match your eating to your activity level and be the person you most want to be. It’s worth it. Ask me how to get started.
Marc
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